One thing I've observed over the years is that those readers who are interested in anorexia nervosa seem to have little interest in obesity, which they often seem regard as an lifestyle choice irrelevant to them, while those who study obesity often ask themselves what this rare condition (AN) has to do with their vastly more prevalent (read: important) condition of obesity (OB)? Quite a lot, as it turns out. And by the way, it’s worth repeating at the outset, neither condition is one…Read More
For people who are high achieving and successful, patience is typically not one of their long suits, especially when “patience” involves rest and restraint.
It’s not enough that our patients are often self-driven high achievers, but as this temperament trait is also highly heritable, many of our parents are as well. It is not unusual for our kids to be valedictorians, salutatorians, the lead in the school play, talented musicians, or competitive dancers or athletes, whose efforts…Read More
Christmas is not just one single holiday at Kartini Clinic, it is several. In fact it’s a season involving many celebrations and special events. Some of our patients’ families do not celebrate Christmas as such, of course, but for those who do, some “highlights”:
Baking… baking… baking. It’s a problem in many ways. And the truth is, no matter how appealing the picture of doing so may be, or how often it’s been done before in your family, probably not everyone should make/bake…Read More
I am a pediatric eating disorder doctor and try my best to limit my practice to patients 22 and younger. Why is this hard? Because I have a great treatment team and good treatment is hard to come by, so we sometimes run into deserving and desperate adult patients, whom we simply must refer to adult providers. I say this so that readers of this blog may put my recommendations into the context of the age group with which I am most familiar, although it is my opinion that this topic is…Read More
Re-feeding has its own rewards, though there can be misery and challenge to get there. I know that some of you who have been through this, either at home or with a team not at home, will be able to relate to what I am talking about. It’s when the smile comes back.
It’s hard to predict when the tipping point will come. For some it’s within the first 48 hours of beginning to eat: the circulation improves, the cheeks fill with more color, the eyes brighten and they just feel better.…Read More
My good friend and colleague Therese Waterhous, a PhD, RD eating disorder specialist and board member of the parent organization F.E.A.S.T., called me the other day. She needed to vent, and now, apparently, I do too.
It’s not that her annoying experience was rare or new, it’s just the fact that such ignorance persists and that at this point -- given the avalanche of new information about pediatric eating disorders -- such ignorance seems willful. You can update your database. I…Read More
You may have heard me say it before: medicine is as prone to fads as the fashion industry. And worse: tightly held “truths” in medicine can be as entrenched as religious beliefs and providers will respond to being challenged with as much heat and resentment as if you had challenged their religion.
Didn’t your grandmother tell you (mine did) to avoid talking politics and religion in polite society? Well… here I go anyway. And sorry for the many citations. If you’re going to talk…Read More
This blog is asking for help from those of you who have a child with anorexia nervosa but who may have experienced an eating disorder yourself.
Any clinic or provider who treats pediatric eating disorders will sooner or later see children whose families have more than one affected (or partially affected) family member. This is the fancy way of saying that when you do a careful history you are likely to find other family members who have eating disorders in addition to the child.… Read More
It's not very common for me to hear things out of the mouths of our patients that I have not heard before -- I have heard most things many, many times. For example: “exercise (insert dance, soccer, cheer, ballet, etc) is my only social life, I don’t have any friends without it,” or “school is the most important thing to me. I can’t get behind because of treatment,” or “I don’t care abut how much weight I gain, as long as it’s muscle,” or “I don’t tolerate milk products, fatty…Read More
I get asked all the time: will the “extra weight” come off her stomach or his face? Many people are appalled to hear that parents whose child was starved and wasted could become focused on worrying that “they might have gained a little too much weight”. But it happens all the time. We talk and talk about weight re-distribution to families, but it’s hard.
I am grateful, therefore, for an article that appeared in the September 2014 issue of the journal Nutrients titled Anorexia…Read More