Viewing blog posts tagged with "Parental Distress"

Treatment Fatigue

posted by Julie O'Toole on April 23, 2014 at 11:37pm

I feel so weary writing this, I almost can’t start.  And I am not talking about provider fatigue, for that is a different subject altogether.  No, I mean the fatigue I have watched parents feel over all these years of treating children with eating disorders.

Parents are human, even when they can do inhumanly difficult things for the sake of their children. None are saints, of course, but they can come close to one when circumstances require. At least some of them can (and do).

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Refeeding at Home

posted by Julie O'Toole on March 20, 2014 at 5:22pm

I was recently asked by a professional skeptic, a parent & friend of mine, “why can’t parents re-feed their own children at home without the stamp of approval of the ‘professionals’”?

Well, they can, they DO, they SHOULD!  

Home re-feeding is ideal when it works, as virtually any intervention that can be done at home is preferable to one that requires the input of (even caring) strangers.  BUT -- and there are several buts-- it does not always work for several reasons:

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But For The Grace of God

posted by Julie O'Toole on March 12, 2014 at 11:32pm

When I was a girl, my brothers and sister and I had the usual kid-like responses to the world around us.  One of them was innocent astonishment at those less fortunate than we: the man at the bus stop without a leg, the “retarded” kid on the playground, homeless people.  If we were unwise enough to comment on them negatively in our father’s presence we felt the full force of his disapproval, the full weight of his teaching.  “When you see someone less fortunate than you, you are…

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